Character! Competence !! and Capability !!! Makes a Great Leader

I believe leadership begins from within. Character is the foundation. Competence is the skill. Capability is the strength to deliver results. When these three work together, leadership is not forced. It is earned. I have learned that titles do not make leaders. Values do. Skills sharpen influence, and capability proves consistency over time.

Character is who I am when no one is watching. It is integrity, honesty, humility, and discipline. Without character, competence becomes dangerous and capability becomes self serving. Nelson Mandela once said, “A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination.” That combination is character in action. It is what makes people trust leadership even in difficult seasons.

Competence is the commitment to growth and excellence. I write, I learn, I observe, and I improve because leadership demands responsibility. Competence means I understand my craft, my people, and my purpose. As Peter Drucker said, “Management is doing things right. Leadership is doing the right things.” Doing the right things requires knowledge, clarity, and continuous learning.

Capability is the ability to translate character and competence into results. It is execution. It is resilience. It is showing up consistently and delivering value even under pressure. Capability answers the question people rarely ask out loud. Can this leader actually lead us through change. Abraham Lincoln captured this truth when he said, “Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it. The tree is the real thing.” Capability reveals the real tree.

I have seen that great leaders do not separate values from performance. They align them. John C Maxwell reminds us, “Leadership is not about titles, positions, or flowcharts. It is about one life influencing another.” Influence grows when people see character they can respect, competence they can rely on, and capability they can trust.

Nelson Mandela also said, “It always seems impossible until it is done.” That is the voice of capability. The courage to act. The discipline to persist. The strength to finish.

As I grow, I choose to build character intentionally. I develop competence daily. I stretch my capability boldly. This is the leadership path I believe in. This is the leadership path I write about, live by, and will continue to pursue.

If patience and discipline were easy, everyone would be wealthy. The truth is that the journey to success is not designed for everyone. It is built for those with uncommon resilience, those who are willing to keep going when results are slow and applause is absent.

Life will not always clap for you at the beginning. Sometimes it will question you. Sometimes it will doubt you. And sometimes it will ignore you completely. That is the stage where most people give up. But that stage is where real hustlers are born.

Hustling and succeeding in life demands more than dreams. It requires courage, focus, and the willingness to chase your goals without shame. To win, you must be bold about what you want and relentless in your pursuit of it. Success does not respond to wishful thinking. It responds to clarity, planning, and consistent execution.

Define your goals clearly, Plan your execution with intention and Collaborate with people who share your vision. Most importantly, build resilience strong enough to survive disappointment.

One day, your consistency will speak louder than every explanation you ever gave. Keep going. Your story is still being written

“Success belongs to those who stay committed long after the excitement has faded.”

When I completed my NYSC and began job hunting, nothing reasonable was forthcoming. Days turned into weeks, and opportunities were scarce. Instead of waiting endlessly, I made a decision that changed my path. I started a small scale business with the little savings from my “Alawe” the NYSC monthly allowance.

People doubted me, some disapproved silently. I remember when a course mate visited me. The expression on her face spoke volumes. It was a look filled with doubt and quiet mockery . But what she did not know was that hustling was already part of my life long before university. Before my academic journey, I had successfully run a petty trading business on the streets. I understood the grind, the uncertainty, and the discipline it demanded.

Success rewards those who stay committed when results are slow and opinions are loud

So I persevered! I stayed focused! and refused to let anyone’s opinion redefine my reality. Today, the success I enjoy is living proof of the work I put in, the sacrifices I made, and the resilience I maintained when giving up would have been easier.

They doubted the process

I trusted discipline

From NYSC Alawe to building my own path

Consistency always wins

Never allow your dreams slip ! You are destined for change so :

Define your goals

Execute with purpose

Collaborate wisely

Stay resilient

Block out distractions and naysayers.

Hustling in Silence Builds Loud Results Believe

If this story resonates with you, let it remind you that your current situation does not define your destination. Every great success begins with a bold decision and unwavering consistency.

Stay disciplined. Stay patient. Stay focused.

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There are numbers and then there is 9 !!!! 

A number so mysterious, so consistent, and so spiritually charged that many cultures call it the universal number.

It holds a rhythm that never breaks and a symbolism that never fades.

It is more than mathematics

It is energy

It is alignment

It is completion

WHY 9 IS THE MOST MAGICAL NUMBER

The number 9 carries a secret:

No matter how many times it is  multiplied ! broken or stretched , it always returns to itself.

This is not coincidence  it is a universal pattern.

A Magical Pattern That Never Breaks!!!!!

Take any whole number, multiply it by 9, and then add the digits together.

You will ALWAYS come back to 9.

Let us look at some magical examples:

• 9 × 1 = 9 → 9

• 9 × 2 = 18 → 1 + 8 = 9

• 9 × 3 = 27 → 2 + 7 = 9

• 9 × 4 = 36 → 3 + 6 = 9

• 9 × 5 = 45 → 4 + 5 = 9

• 9 × 6 = 54 → 5 + 4 = 9

• 9 × 7 = 63 → 6 + 3 = 9

• 9 × 8 = 72 → 7 + 2 = 9

• 9 × 9 = 81 → 8 + 1 = 9

• 9 × 11 = 99 → 9 + 9 = 18, then 1 + 8 = 9

• 9 × 14 = 126 → 1 + 2 + 6 = 9

• 9 × 23 = 207 → 2 + 0 + 7 = 9

You can continue with any number, and the answer will always lead back to the one powerful digit 9.

A SYMBOL OF COMPLETION AND SPIRITUAL MATURITY

In numerology and ancient traditions, the number 9 represents:

• Completion

• Fulfillment

• Inner wisdom

• Universal love

• Enlightenment

It is the final single digit as well as the number that closes cycles and opens deeper understanding.

NATURE ITSELF HONORS THE POWER OF 9

It takes nine months for a human life to grow in the womb.

Nine months of silence, formation, and divine preparation.

Nine months before a new soul opens its eyes to the world. 

This is not just biology it is universal design.

Nothing about that is accidental

Nine is the rhythm of creation

Nine is the frequency of life

“When you align with 9, you align with completion.”

Just as the number never changes its identity, you can train your mind and spirit to return to your true self, no matter how much life stretches you.

And one powerful way to connect with this universal energy is through repetition especially repetition in counts of 9.

THE SPIRITUAL PRACTICE OF PRAYING OR AFFIRMING 9 TIMES DAILY

When you repeat a prayer, intention, or affirmation nine times, you step into the frequency of completion and renewal.

Saying a prayer or affirmation 9 times : 

• Clears your energy

• Strengthens your focus

• Raises your vibration

• Aligns your mind and spirit

• Activates manifestation

• Deepens spiritual connection

You are not just speaking , you are aligning your frequency with the same rhythm that governs creation.

“What you repeat becomes your reality.”

“What you focus on expands.”

“Align with 9, and align with your destiny.”

WHY YOU SHOULD EMBRACE THE POWER OF 9 TODAY

Let the number 9 remind you of something powerful:

You can always come back to yourself

You can always find your purpose again

You can always return to your strength

Just like 9 always returns to 9,

you will always return to who you were created to be.

Start today.

Pick a prayer, affirmation, or declaration.

Repeat it nine times daily with intention.

You will feel the shift

You will rise in energy

You will align with a deeper universal flow

This is so because as you make this declarations 9 times , you will not just be speaking words!

You will be activating a frequency that the universe understands.

The Power of 9 Is a Reminder That:

• You are never too broken to be restored

• You are never too far from becoming whole

• You can always return to your purpose

• You can always return to your strength

• You can always return to yourself

9 is not just a number it is a frequency !!!

A cycle! A completion ! and A universal code.

Just as Every multiple of 9 returns to 9 , you will always return to your destiny.

Repeat your prayer or affirmation 9 times today and watch your energy rise!!

1. The Fundamental Laws of Luck

1. “Luck” isn’t random : what looks like luck is often the result of consistent, purposeful actions. 
2. Life obeys the “law of cause and effect” (or “sowing and reaping”): the outcomes you get correspond to the actions you take. 
3. The more you focus on productive actions (work, learning, growth), the higher the probability you’ll “hit the target.”
4. In short: To create “luck,” you sow seeds today ! there are no accidents, only causes and effects.
   

Takeaway: Consistency, responsibility, and deliberate action lay the foundation for success treat “luck” as a byproduct of wise choices, not random chance.

2. The Secret of Goals

1. Having clear, written goals brings clarity and focus to your life. 
2. Goals help align your daily efforts: when you know what you want, you can plan the steps to get there. 
3. Without goals, efforts scatter — with goals, even small steps accumulate into progress and eventual success.
   

Takeaway: Define your destination clearly! writing down your goals turns vague wishes into actionable plans.

3. Knowledge: The Key to Power and Success

1. Knowledge! especially specialized, practical, well-applied knowledge becomes a major asset on your road to success. 
2. The more you learn and grow (skills, understanding, self-improvement), the more empowered you are to take advantage of opportunities. 
3. Success is not just about “being lucky,” but having the competence and insight to recognize and act on good opportunities when they come.
   

Takeaway: Invest in yourself !!! the knowledge you acquire greatly enhances your power to shape your future.

4. Achievement and Mastery

1. Achieving success requires mastering skills and competencies; repeated practice and refinement lead to mastery. 
2. Mastery raises the value you deliver, boosting your potential for success in any field. 
3. Instead of chasing quick wins or hoping for shortcuts, focus on long-term competence and consistent improvement.

Takeaway: Aim for excellence — mastery through persistent improvement outlasts temporary “luck”.

5. The Power of Personality

1. Your personal traits such as character, integrity, confidence, attitude have the power to shape how others respond to you. 
2. Traits like trustworthiness, empathy, clarity, and resilience attract positive opportunities, collaborators, and supporters. 
3. In many cases, who you are matters as much (or more) than what you know . personality influences perception, reputation, and relationships.
   

Takeaway: Develop yourself not only in skill but in character! A strong personality multiplies your chances of success.

Lack of character and trust would make people not patronize you even if you are selling heavenly tickets .

6. Expanding Your Network

1. Building relationships and networks increases your exposure to opportunities, support, resources, and collaboration. 
2. Knowing the right people like mentors, partners, peers can significantly accelerate progress toward your goals. 
3. Networking isn’t just about “contacts,” but about creating mutual value, trust, and goodwill.

Takeaway: Surround yourself with people who uplift, support, and challenge you because who you know does influence what luck comes your way.

7. Financial Independence

1. One major aspect of “luck” for many is having financial security . This book focuses on achieving wealth and independence responsibly. 
2. Through discipline, planning, wise choices, and leveraging your skills and knowledge, financial success becomes a realistic outcome rather than a gamble. 
3. Money then becomes a tool and foundation and not the end thereby giving you freedom to pursue goals, growth and impact.
   

Takeaway: Treat financial success as a result of smart effort, planning and value creation not luck or randomness.

8. Using the Power of Your Mind

1. Your mindset, beliefs, attitudes together with how you think shapes outcomes. Positive, clear thinking helps you spot opportunities and stay motivated. 
2. Mental discipline, focus, and clarity help transform goals and plans into effective action and real results. 
3. By training your mind through reflection, visualization, self-talk, clarity you gain inner advantage over randomness.
   

Takeaway: Your mind is a powerful tool master it, and you steer your life; neglect it, and you drift.

9. Focus on Results

1. Concentrating on outcomes not just activity ensures your efforts bring value. Busy doesn’t always mean productive. 
2. It’s not enough to work hard; you must work smart and channel energy to the tasks that matter most. 
3. Results-orientation helps you measure success, course-correct, and stay aligned with your goals and purpose.

Takeaway: Keep your eyes on the prize let results, not busyness, define your success.

10. Action Orientation

1. Ideas, plans, and goals are useless until you act. Action is the bridge between dreams and reality. 
2. Consistent action over time compounds small steps, repeated, eventually create substantial results (what seems like “luck”). 
3. Procrastination, hesitation or reliance on chance = low probability of success. Taking initiative = highest probability.

Takeaway: Don’t wait for “the right moment” or “luck” start, persist, and act.

11. Virtue, Courage, and Persistence

1. Strong character , honesty, courage, discipline, integrity when combined with persistence, is critical for long-term success. 
2. Many people give up just before a major breakthrough; persistence turns obstacles into stepping stones. 
3. Virtue builds trust, reputation, inner strength and when luck knocks, you’ll be ready to open the door.
   

Takeaway: Success is rarely easy or quick but with courage, integrity, and persistence, you increase your odds dramatically.

What “Luck” Really Means

1. “Luck” as commonly understood (random chance, coincidence) is mostly a myth. In reality, what people call luck is usually a combination of clear goals + knowledge + good habits + action + character + strategic relationships + mindset + persistence. 
2. There are “universal laws” are predictable principles that, if you follow them consistently, tilt probability strongly in your favor. 
3. Success becomes a function of what you do not what “chance” gives you.

Inspired by Brian Tracy’s The Laws of Luck

1.

“Luck is never random — it’s the reward for disciplined action.”

2.

“Your results will always reflect the seeds you plant.”

3.

“Clarity is power. The clearer your goals, the faster you move toward them.”

4.

“You become lucky when preparation meets opportunity.”

5.

“What you learn today shapes the opportunities you attract tomorrow.”

6.

“Mastery is built through repetition, not inspiration.”

7.

“Your character is your magnet — it pulls opportunities toward you.”

8.

“Your network is a mirror of your future. Choose wisely.”

9.

“Financial freedom is a lifestyle of discipline, not a stroke of luck.”

10.

“Your mind is your steering wheel wherever it focuses, your life goes.”

11.

“Don’t pray for luck. Act for results.”

12.

“Action beats intention. Start before you feel ready.”

13.

“Persistence turns setbacks into stepping stones.”

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“Success belongs to those who stay consistent long after others quit.”

15.

“Every great achievement was once a small, brave decision.”

Every great life is built on a great routine. My day starts intentionally: I wake up, pray, wash up, take my green tea, and focus on my business. No aimless scrolling. No unnecessary conversations. No wasted energy.

“Your time is your currency. Spend it where it grows, not where it disappears.”

1. As an Adult, You Must Create Income

Adulthood comes with responsibilities, and one of the biggest is financial stability. You must have a business or a job that pays your bills and supports your goals. If you do not have one yet, start today. Not next week. Not when you feel ready. Today.

Promote your work daily. Build your skills. Improve your value. Nobody succeeds by doing nothing.

“The world does not reward wishers. It rewards workers.”

2. Dear Students: Holidays Are Not for Sleeping

If you are a student, understand this early: holidays are not for Netflix, random trips, and endless relaxation. They are your golden time to learn skills, intern, start a hustle, or build something small that can grow.

You do not want to graduate and join the unemployed. You want options, confidence, and earning power.

“Prepare now so your future self can thank you, not blame you.”

3. Set Your Ten-Year Plan

Write down everything you want to achieve in the next ten years. Be bold. Be clear. Then break it into small daily steps.

Success is not magic. It is discipline repeated every day.

“Dreams work only when you do.”

4. Master Your Money

Separate your accounts:

• A savings account

• An investments account

• An expenses account

And respect each one. Do not overspend. Do not live on deficit. Stay disciplined.

Financial freedom is not about how much you earn but how well you manage what you earn.

“If you cannot control your money, your money will control your life.”

5. Take Daily Action

Every day, do at least one thing that moves you closer to your goals!

Learn something

Build something

Promote something

Save something

Tiny steps daily lead to massive breakthroughs over time.

“Consistency turns ordinary people into extraordinary achievers.”

6. Protect Your Time

Stop wasting productive hours on social media, gossip, pointless conversations, or scrolling through strangers’ lives.

Use your time to build your own.

“You cannot rise while doing what keeps you low.”

Your Future Starts Now

Your goals will not chase themselves

Your dreams will not build themselves

Your life will not improve by luck ,it will be  improved  with daily action, discipline, and purpose.

Start now! Stay consistent! Refuse excuses! 

In a few years, your results will speak louder than your words.

“Your future is created one disciplined day at a time.”

In the shadows where promises bleed, Silence becomes the price of belonging!

They seek power in places light cannot reach!

But every secret sworn in blood demands a soul in return!

They all swear an oath of secrecy

An oath sealed not with words  but with blood

They are given targets

Bound to a code that knows no mercy

A world where excuses do not breathe.

You either supply or become the supply!

You must deliver or become the delivery!

The rules are clear there is no room for non-productivity.

The pressure is a beast that devours loyalty

Turning family against each other

And friends into prey!

To step out is to invite death

For the blood oath never forgets non forgives

Once you are in , The chain is locked, and the path is sealed!

The only way out is through the grave

for the price of betrayal is blood !

There is no escape only consequence!

So mothers watch the steps of your children

Fathers  speak truth into your sons

The streets whisper promises of wealth

But behind those promises 

lies a prison with no exit.

once an oath is taken

the soul may never return

Guard the innocent

Guide the lost

Every smile hides an agenda

Every handshake,  might be a chain.

Life has a way of testing us when we least expect it. Sometimes, it strips away everything!! comfort! support! and security just to show us what we are truly made of. It doesn’t knock before entering, it storms in to shape you, not to destroy .

The truth is, comfort breeds weakness, but struggle builds strength. The moment you face hardship, you either break or you rise. I chose to rise and that choice changed everything and made me into an over thinker

After my dad the breadwinner of our family passed away, life hit us harder than I ever imagined. Hunger wasn’t just a word anymore, it was our daily reality. I watched the world move on while we struggled to survive. That season turned me into an overthinker, not out of fear, but out of awareness. I learned early that life owes you nothing.

So when I see people depending on their father’s or sibling’s wealth without building anything for themselves, I just smile. 

Life hasn’t taught them yet. Because when life decides to teach, it teaches with pain and silence. It doesn’t give you warnings, it just happens and suddenly, you either rise or remain broken.

Even though my uncle pays my school fees, I still work during holidays and save for emergencies. Because once life humbles you, you never want to feel helpless again

“Once beaten, twice shy,” they say and for me, it’s not just a proverb, it is survival wisdom.

Life doesn’t always whisper sometimes it shouts through pain.

It takes away your comfort to awaken your courage.

When my world fell apart, I realized that struggle isn’t punishment, it is preparation.

Every sleepless night, every empty plate, every silent tear and prayer , they all shaped my strength.

Life doesn’t break you to destroy you, it breaks you to rebuild and reveal a stronger you !!

Don’t wait for hardship to teach you discipline. Build yourself before life forces you to!!!

One day, life will test everything you rely on and only your grind will bail you out .

#Motivation #Resilience #KeepPushing #FaithAndFocus #Janeiumedia

💔 It’s Hard to Be a Woman

In a world that trades dignity for desire, She stands scarred but sacred.

The world might try to silence her, but she turns her pain into power.It’s hard to be a woman yet she rises.

It is hard to be a woman in a world that buys everything including dignity, yet many still rises, stronger, wiser, and unbroken.

From childhood, many girls carry invisible scars. Studies reveal that over 70% experience some form of sexual molestation before they even understand what love or safety truly means. Their innocence is stolen, their trust shattered, and their silence often mistaken for acceptance.

As women grow older, they enter another battlefield the workplace. Here, competence sometimes takes a back seat to compromise. Promotions are whispered about, exchanged in private rooms, and many deserving women are left behind simply because they refused to “play the game.”

It is heartbreaking to see a system that rewards submission over skill, manipulation over merit, and appearance over ability. A world where a woman’s worth is judged not by her work but by her willingness to yield to corruption.

In some situations you witnessed a junior staff earning more than the experienced in the job because corruption is now the new qualification ! The system is sick. when character becomes a burden and integrity costs you success.

Yet despite all this, women continue to rise. They work twice as hard, endure twice as much, and still show up strong, brave, and unbroken.

To every woman who has been silenced, shamed, or sidelined , your strength is your protest. Your resilience is your revolution. Never let the world make you feel small for choosing dignity over deceit.

Let us build a society where talent, not temptation, earns the reward.

Where little girls grow up safe, and women thrive without compromise.

Because the day we protect the worth of women, we protect the soul of humanity.

✊🏽 #WomenDeserveBetter #EndSexualAbuse #EqualityForAll #MotivationByJaneiumedia

🌴 In the jungle like this, every shaking tree is a target!!! and forgiveness is a sin!!!! No be me talk am na Jungle dey COMMUNICATE!!!

In today’s jungle, money is not just power!! it is protection. It doesn’t only open doors; it wipes away records, silences voices, bends rules, and even turns the law into a shield.

Those with power don’t always fight, they simply pay to make things disappear. Stories that should be told are bought and buried. Evidence that could expose evil gets lost. And people who speak the truth are often paid to stay silent.

The message is clear in this jungle, if you speak too loud, someone with money might buy your silence.

🏦 The Jungle Banks

Even the banks, which should help people, play their own game.

They make sure the rich stay comfortable while the poor remain in debt.

Loans that promise freedom often become chains.The poor pay more for less, while the rich use cheap credit to grow richer.The system is not broken it was built this way.

✊ But this is not a hopeless story !!!! it is a wake-up call.

Systems are made by people and people can change them.

We can rebuild what’s broken and rewrite the rules of this jungle.

Final Thought:

The jungle may be wild, but awareness is our weapon and unity is our strength.When people rise together, even the strongest systems must bend.

When you are broke and can’t even afford your own bread, the kind of attention you get is very different from the fake love people show when you are doing well financially. It’s sad but true people are not always drawn to you, they are drawn to what they can get from you.

When you are at your lowest, you will realize who truly cares and who only stays for what they can gain. The moment you no longer have something to offer, their true colours will show. And that’s not a loss it’s revelation.

Sometimes, you have to be selfish to protect your peace and your growth. You are not meant to pour into everyone, especially those who only show up when things are good. Life will teach you that peace of mind is more valuable than fake friendships and forced love.

You will grow, you will rise, and you will become stronger because of every disappointment. Don’t chase validation, focus on building yourself. The right people will come, not because of what you have, but because of who you are.

So, protect your energy. Keep your circle small. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself. Those who are real will stay, and those who are fake will fade away.

Remember — peace of mind is richer than money, and self-respect is better than fake company. Stay grounded, stay grateful, and never forget: the love that remains when you have nothing is the only love that’s real. ❤️